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Our daily life seems to be tormented by unnecessary conflicts and disappointments. How to overcome these ?

Do not hate anyone. Start loving everyone. Do not expect anything from any relationship. The worldly relationships are businesslike. ‘If you care for me, I care for you.’ That is the way of the world. That is why worldly love is not true.
Start loving everyone without any reason or rhyme. Anyone on the street, anyone whom you come across, start loving, do not expect any return. Even if he cheats you, do not get upset about it.
You have to continue sowing. One day you will harvest. But you cannot stop
sowing. And if a man confines himself to his piece of land alone, the harvest
will be half a kilo. If he cultivates in a bigger area, it may be ten kilos. So,
do not expect love in a small family, because you may get, you may not get. Try
to expand your love.
If out of 100 people, even 20 love you, you stand to gain. Whereas in a family
of three, two do not love you, you feel sad.
Try to expand your love. Otherwise we become sad. Husband, wife, children, our
circle is so small. The husband wants the wife to care for him, the wife wants
the husband to care for her. When there is no reciprocation, there is a clash
and they are not happy.
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